Read below what my clients say about the results and changes they experienced from working with me.  I look forward to being your Relationship Troubleshooter.

"I can’t tell you how much my sessions with you helped!" 

I didn’t realize how deeply I was stuck in the old familiar comfort zone of feeling I was “not good enough” to pursue my dreams.

Now, thanks to you I feel like I’ve hit the restart button, and am ready to plunge into my excellence and finally write my book. Working with you is such a great reminder of all of the amazing gifts I have learned and that I forgot to use! 

Elaine D -- School Teacher

"The kind of understanding I felt about myself was completely new to me."

I have never been in such a deep meditative space. I felt in control and accepting of myself even though were doing something very foreign to me. What a privilege to have Esmée in my life!!!

The hypnotic suggestion Esmée created for me is incredible. I have already incorporated it into my purpose statement for my life. It gives me the courage to go beyond what my tired brain wants to do so that I can be fully engaged in this life we have!

Julia R -- Interior Designer

"Since working with Esmée, I accept myself in a way I haven't in a long time."

My life was haunted daily by the endless physical and emotional traumas I endured as a child. As an adult, I worked for years to free myself from the critical self-talk, the way I interacted in the world, the way I navigated my career and relationships. The shame, anguish, and fear of rejection I felt were crushing me. I wanted to pursue my dreams fearlessly, and nothing was working.

I'm now able to sustain that positive momentum on my own, and I'm finally starting to get out of the woods with a new sense of freedom and renewed ownership of my thoughts and ambitions. 

I now feel more supported and courageous than I have in a long time. I highly recommend Esmée to anyone who wants the mental freedom to pursue their dreams.

Kuldeep S -- Business Owner, Certified Fitness Trainer


"Esmée helped me get out of my shell and understand the worth I bring to a relationship."

I would recommender her to anyone that is introverted and is looking for ways to open up.

Alan D -- Software Program Manager


"The sessions with Esmée were IMMENSELY powerful for me."

I had been procrastinating about making critical decisions in both my personal and business life. After working with Esmée, I felt like I had taken the ‘limitless, unstoppable’ drug. She helped me hit empowering notes that I continue to resonate well beyond our sessions. I am so much happier now.

Esmée is a gifted and BEAUTIFUL SOUL!!

Ralph M -- Software Programmer

Divine Kika

Relationship & Sex Advice

Miss Sunshine, thank you for a beautiful transformative session. I was struggling to let go of a relationship that was beyond repair. I didn’t know that I could relax that deeply and let go of so much so fast. The change was clear, real, and super fast. It is truly amazing to work with you!

Rex A

Influencer Technology Academy

Thank you again, Esmée - you’ve helped me step into my role as a BUILDER. Building a new business from the ground up had me questioning myself, “Am I on the right path?” I was getting in the way of my success. Well, guess what?! Right after working with you, I received my biggest single client payment ever! 

I now know that the Universe is taking care of me and that my path is clear. Esmée, it is a joy to work with you.

Jordan L

Esmée is a fantastic guide to hypnosis and relationship troubleshooting. I wanted to make a significant career change but felt inner conflict about losing the relationships I’d developed at work. It was holding me back from answering my true calling - coaching young people to lead a happier, fulfilled life through Buddhist philosophy.

Very safe and welcoming for you to be able to access deep space into the subconscious. My stress level on a scale of 1-10 went from a seven down to a zero. I’m feeling a lot of bliss and clarity mentally; my body feels nearly weightless with a never-ending smile! I am ready to dive into my new career with absolute certainty. Wonderfully sincere work she is doing, and I honor that.

John R

Real Estate Investor

It was with a most pleasant mix of anticipation and trepidation that I arrived for my hypnotherapy session with Esmée St James. Her warm smile and relaxed greeting immediately put me at ease. 

After discussing various aspects of my life, we determined what we would focus on. The session itself was an amazing and profound experience. I shan’t give out details, but I can tell you it was revelatory, physically soothing, and it prompted deep emotional healing.

Esmeé’s gentle questions and verbal instructions expertly led me into a wonderfully relaxed and open state of consciousness, where I was able to see things as they are, without shame or blame. Her guidance was beautifully intuitive, reassuring, and led me to many insightful realizations about my “way of being” in this world. 

I experienced a deep knowing and letting go. While life can be difficult emotionally, its fears and sorrows are to be embraced and experienced, not hidden, and pushed away. Months later, I still practice and employ the tools I learned from my experience with Esmée.

I am navigating my way through this life with more skill and ease, much to my benefit and satisfaction! 

Darrell M


 One of the things I love about Esmée’s service is that it based on the individual; she understands that different things work for different people. I reached out to her about my dating challenges and my beliefs about dating.

 Esmée quickly understood what I was looking for, what kinds of things I had tried, what my thoughts were. I began seeing results and change only two days after working with her, and it appears these improvements are permanent! 

I highly recommend Esmee’s services. She is the best at what she does and an amazing woman in general.

Grant A

Professional Photographer

I cannot speak too highly of Esmée’s skills and attitude! Totally uplifting and game changing. For any man (including myself) wanting elegance, sophistication and a positive attitude to move forward, this is it. Her focused intelligence showed me how become the best I can be in making a good impression overall.

To be inspired by this woman is a joy and life changing. Totally uplifting and game changing. Esmée knocks it out of the park! She has gotten me immediate results with women and business too. I feel great and highly recommend her service. Chin up guys, working with Esmée will rock your world!

Sean M


I was overwhelmed about resuming dating after a long marriage. I knew I’d need a dating profile and I’m very camera shy. I didn’t have to worry. From our first meeting, Esmée put me at ease.  

On shooting day, she chose photogenic clothing from my closet. The entire process boosted my confidence hugely, and the photos she took were fantastic. I would recommend Esmée to anyone without reservation!

Ben L


I wanted to attract two things, my dream girl and to expand my business with more high end clientele. In short, I knew I’d need to look like a 50M CEO. That meant a complete wardrobe, dating profile and home overhaul.

Esmée made it happen so smoothly for me, I never knew I could look this good! Since working with her my business has grown 75% and my dream girl… is sitting right here with me.

Thank you for your outstanding work, Esmée. You are a first class experience and got me exactly what I was looking for!

Mark M

Sr. Tech Recuriter

 I had the pleasure of working with Esmée, or more appropriately, to have Esmée work with me on improving my self-confidence around women and dating. The entire process was fantastic, and I am delighted with the results. She is very insightful, passionate, and devoted to bringing out the best in people.

Esmée makes the process comfortable and enjoyable, presenting new ideas that are readily accepted and spot-on. It brought out a new sense of confidence… all due to her suggestions. Most of all, she is skilled at identifying strengths to build on and working on those areas that need improvement.

Overall, every aspect of working with Esmée was fantastic, and the results speak for themselves!

Fritz A

Sr. VP Marketing

5 Stars for sure! I hesitated at first but Esmée made me comfortable to take the plunge: concise and comprehensive analysis, targeted shopping aided by impeccable taste, plus tips and tricks all together resulting in subtle yet impactful changes. Getting noticed and feeling more confident are some of the side effects of this no prescription required treatment. Highly recommended!

Ron S


Big thumbs up! I particularly like working with Esmée because she understands who I am and helped create a well-received profile which greatly boosted my confidence with women.

Esmée does a great job of assessing your current appearance and in making outstanding recommendations on how to improve it. Top to bottom – from hair and skin to fashion she knows it all, has great taste and is really fun to work with.

Thanks to Esmée I’ve received many compliments and am experiencing a significant increase in response from women. I highly recommend working with her!

John W


I was trying to figure out if the woman I was dating was a good match for me. Sometimes it’s hard to see things the way they really are when you are deep into a relationship.

Esmée you are like having the smart sister I never had, so easy to work with. You make the process very easy, have a handle on what I am looking for and what I need. You are like having a dating pair of binoculars that is unbiased. 

I wouldn’t hesitate to refer you, Esmée, working with you is outstanding!

Frankie E

Law Enforcement Officer

I wanted some clarity on pursuing a potential love interest. I really enjoyed how Esmée is so outgoing, friendly, and has such a positive personality! It made it easier for me to open up and chat with her on the phone.

Esmée got me out of my shell and helped me identify the positives about myself! She shared amazing insights on how to better communicate and attract more compatible women.

I would definitely recommend The Dating Muse, Esmée St James to anyone who is serious and seeking advice on meeting women! First step is to step out of your shell and be open minded on the valuable advice and insight that she has to offer. Thanks Esmée!

Peter G


Rarely do you find someone who can combine appropriate style and class to meet both personal and individual needs. Esmée took time to meet with me and to understand who I am.

She is personal, honest and accomplished the individualized goals that I was looking for, I couldn’t be happier.

Travis L

Sr. Sales Engineer

The difference is like night and day! I was getting few responses when contacting women I was interested in online dating sites. Since having Esmée make my dating profile over, not only do I now have plenty of dates with quality women, the resulting ego boost has really increased my confidence level overall.

Max D

Software Engineer

My main objective was to become more educated in the art of understanding unspoken signals like body language and reading between the lines, and more importantly to hone my skills for approaching women and breaking the ice in a natural, nonthreatening fashion.

What I immediately observed and loved about Esmée was that I felt very comfortable speaking with her. She is very knowledgeable, patient, and explores the real meanings behind what one is asking before sharing her feedback.

Esmée really understood me. I was apprehensive, she made the process enjoyable, She educated me about body language, how women think and what to say to them!

Larry K


The dating scene had changed immensely when my relationship ended. Esmée quickly got me back in the game, I like working with her because is so so nonjudgmental and easy to easy to talk to. She taught me how to dress better, look better and what to say to get a date.

Now that I feel more confident I find it much easier to approach and talk to beautiful, sexy women and get dates. I would recommend Esmée in a heartbeat!

Brendan G


Esmée really knows her stuff. She tells it like it is – very straightforward, what one needs to hear, in a nonjudgmental, supportive way. She fine-tuned my online profile, took great pictures of me, prepped me for my next Big Date – what to wear, do’s and don’ts – practical stuff that I needed to remember and new ideas I hadn’t thought about. She looked me over like my date will, mentioning things I wouldn’t notice.

She covered everything – first contact, what to talk about, what NOT to talk about, how to focus on what you want. She “debriefed” me after, and helped me see what worked – and tips to make the next date even better. Now I’m ready for more!

Talking me through getting back into the dating scene with realistic advice from a woman’s perspective was invaluable! She is a very savvy, warm, wonderful person and makes it a fun adventure. You will feel GREAT with Esmée and with your results. Highly recommended.

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